Jan 11, 2011

The mother in me

There are times that I could pat my back and said that - " yes, I did a good job today". Other times there's this doubt and question of my attitude towards the girls. I'm not a perfect Nanay. That's for sure so I get upset and irritated. I even scream at times when stress out esp. if the girls get into my nerves. They could be adorable then challenging the next. A lot of times I've talked to my hubby about this and of course he would say something which could reassure me and my never-ending self doubt.

Being perfect is not my goal, just to be the loving mother. Someone whom my daughters could be proud of.

Am I alone in this agony?

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20 comments:

chikletz said...

be the mother your kids deserve :)

Dressing Up For Me said...

Even if I´m not a Nanay yet, I can relate to what you´re feeling definitely!Must be the mother instinct in all of us. ;)

genny said...

a loving and caring mother is what i think you are. that is enough reason for them to be proud of. thanks for dropping by at my blog. cheers!

Yesha said...

Thanks for dropping by. You got a cool blog here. :)

between 7 and 9 said...

At the end of the day it's these little imperfections about you that makes you the perfect mom for your children. :)

Kristine said...

You're indeed a wonderful person and loving nanay for sure. No more questions. :)
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lyzacruz88 said...

you are not alone, girl hehe...

hope you can comment on my blog 'A Fresh Way to Start'...thanks :)

yen said...

thanks for the visit

Bino said...

saludo ako sa yo ! :)

Dredd said...

You're not alone and I know it wasn't easy. It's a hell of a bumpy ride especially with moody-teen hormone. Love them unconditionally.

Kamila said...

I don't think so Ate Mayet.. sometimes there are really point in our family that children don't understand how hard the parents look out for them... and sometimes maybe vice versa...

I love my mom so dearly.. but sometimes she's being a bug. I mean, I want us to connect more.. but she usually close the deal without clearing it up for the both of us.

I don't know.. but Ate Mayet..whatever happens, your children will always love you for who you are.

jellybelly said...

Hi Mayet, thanks for visiting my blog.

I can identify with you as I have a toddler too. There are times when patience wears thin but the next moment they can be so adorable :)

♥peachkins♥ said...

every mom wants to be the perfect mom to her kids. I'm sure your kids you are one!

carlota said...

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Mom Daughter Style said...

i can relate but since i feel guilty leaving her everyday i think i'm being very patient with her kasi during workdays di naman whole day kami magkasama

I•AM•JOOL said...

Yeah. you are very a loving mother :) your kids are lucky :)

eden said...

You are not alone, Mayet. I have two kids, a girl and a boy. Most of the time di sila magka sundo.it is hard sometimes. I stopped working long time ago just to take care of them and I enjoy every minute of it.

Dhemz said...

NOPE! you are not alone at all...motherhood is quiet challenging...I scream at yell...minsan nga nakakatikim nang palo tong anak ko...hay life.

lina@women's perspectives said...

Nobody's perfect, Mayet...just do your best that you can do :)

carinamodella said...

it's just normal sis! things happen this way sometimes. kids are so amazing and lovable.